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Easy Ways to Reduce Stress – It will Improve Your Love Connection

If you have a stressful relationship, have you ever wondered about your connection and how it relates to the general happiness of your relationship? How connected do you feel with your partner on a daily basis? And have you ever noticed the lack of connection between you when there is an argument? That last question may seem a bit silly because when there is an argument there probably is little or no connection at all. But what if you could stay connected when there is an issue instead of it going out of the window. I wonder what would happen? …

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Best Way to Relieve Stress – It Will Change Your Relationship & Life

Are you stressed in your relationship? How’s your connection?  Not what it could be or once was?  Is communicating and resolving issues difficult?  Do the same issues keep coming up?  In coaching terms, we would say this is the power struggle.  Unfortunately, a lot of couples never get through this stage of relationship but there is a way. Relieving stress is the first place to start for rebuilding your connection.  Without feeling connected everything else goes out the window.   Releasing Stress is Very Simple The adrenalin during the fight/flight stress response (and when a stressful memory is remembered) can …

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A Great Tip For a Good Relationship – Bust Through Stress

Are you in a Stressful Relationship, but are Yearning for a Good Relationship? Can’t find a solution to how you are feeling? There is a solution and you will be surprised how easy it is! I’ve known that stress is the fight/flight automatic survival response to danger for years through my study of physiology, but I hadn’t quite got the significance of it until recently and how quickly the response can be cleared.  When this happens it amazes me how resourceful my relationship clients become and it’s affect on their relationship. My point is that we just don’t act on …

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Relationship Agreements

Simple And Effective Steps For Making Relationship Agreements These steps can be used for every day agreements to important agreements such as property and financial agreements, although these will not be legally binding unless prepared by a lawyer. Some clients who have sought advice from lawyers and have chosen not to go down that path due to increased stress and cost, have found a win-win solution by working through the steps below. If you need a legally binding agreement, having clarity before seeing a lawyer will take some of the stress away.   Step 1 – Rapid Stress Relief If …

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“Valee came highly recommended by friends, and now I can see why. If you are looking for a gentle yet effective and highly experienced coach and therapist, equally apt with men and women, then look no further. I am extremely grateful for the personal insight, and the positive changes in our relationship. We have gained a lot of loving understanding, along with very effective tools. Thanks so very much”, Cathrin   “Happy Couples coaching was perfect timing since I was experiencing a rough time in my extended family.  Valee empowered and guided me with a mixture of techniques (EFT and rapid …

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Communication Problems in Relationships​

  Are you and your partner arguing almost every day? Do you feel no matter what you say that your partner won’t listen or understand you? Do you feel miles apart and just going through the motions of having a relationship? Do you yearn to be understood and loved the way you used to when you first met? In this article you will discover what’s really going on: is it a communication problem or something deeper? What is communication? Have you ever noticed the word commune in communication? It’s a good hint to what communication really is: to converse or …

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Couples Life Skills Program Overview

Discover the Life Skills for a Happy, Loving, Lasting Relationship   It will possibly be the most rewarding journey that you will ever experience! The Happy Couples Life Skills Coaching Programs have been set up to help rewire your brain so that you look at your relationship from a balanced perspective and focus on the good, and what you want to create. Research shows that happy couples focus more on the positive and have the skills necessary to navigate the issues that inevitably come up. THE RELATIONSHIP JOURNEY The programs are a step-by-step journey where you learn about yourself and each …

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How to Stress Relief – Rapidly Relieve Relationship Stress NOW

In this article, How to Stress Relief, you discover what stress is, how negative stress occurs and how it is related to conflict.  You will also discover a simple way that is highly effective and rapid in reducing stress. Content Stress vs Conflict Good vs Bad Stress The First Level of Stress The Fight Flight Reflex & Adrenalin Recognising The Stress Emotions – A Key To Your Wellbeing Relationship Stress vs Conflict Moving Through Stress & Conflict Stress Release Tool for Anger How to Easily Release Fear   Stress vs Conflict If there is a high level of conflict in …

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